How Donald Trump’s hand-holding led to panicky call home by Theresa May – The Guardian
For the former prime minister Theresa May, one of the most pressing matters she confronted during her encounter with Donald Trump a few days after his inauguration went beyond mere diplomacy.
May had travelled to Washington in 2017 with the intention of persuading the new US president to make a supportive statement about Nato. Little did she expect that she would be calling her husband, Philip, to warn him that images of the US president of holding her hand as they walked through the White House would soon be flashing around the world.
With Trump out of power, those who had ringside seats during four years of dangerous and often chaotic foreign policy are now describing their often bruising encounters in a major new documentary series.
The three-part BBC series, Trump Takes on the World, by the award-winning documentary maker Norma Percy, reveals extraordinary access to key observers of the president.
With testimony from a whos who of world leaders and senior US officials, it offers an unmediated reflection of Trump shorn of political hypocrisies.
It was not just May who found Trump unsettling: to European diplomatic observers, he seemed a strange creature. And he also triggered alarm among some American officials in the room with him, with one defence official noting that the presidents notoriously short attention span suggested a squirrel careening through the traffic.
Mays encounter with Trump, which is described to Percy by British aides as well as Trump insiders, was a taste of what was to come. May was seen as not strong by Trump, according to KT McFarland, the former US deputy national security adviser. But the prime minister had gone into the meeting determined to persuade the president to make a statement backing Nato and warn him over his closeness to Vladimir Putin.
The meeting took a bizarre twist as they walked through the White House.
He held her hand going through the colonnades, which took us all by surprise, and as it turns out, took Theresa by surprise, Fiona McLeod Hill, the former joint chief of staff at No 10, told Percy.
She couldnt really take her hand back, so she was stuck And the first thing she said [afterwards] was I need to call Philip just to let him know that Ive been holding hands with another man before it hits the media.
Before May had the opportunity to call her husband, Trump hosted her for lunch, where another boundary-shattering episode was waiting. First May was treated to the full bloom one of Trumps stream-of-consciousness rants, described by Thomas Shannon, then US undersecretary for political affairs, as running the gamut from his own inauguration to his disdain for the press.
Then, keen to raise the issue of Putin, May asked Trump if he had spoken to the Russian leader, which Trump denied. At that point, however, Trumps chief of staff intervened to tell the president that Putin had actually called, but not been put through.
Hill takes up the story of the toe-curling outburst. Trump at this point looks not orange but red. He flipped. Furious. In front of May, he scolded his advisers in what Shannon recalled as an unseemly moment. He said: Youre telling me that Vladimir Putin called the White House and youre only telling me now during this lunch? Vladimir Putin is the only man in the world who can destroy the United States and I didnt take his call.
May was far from alone in being exposed to Trumps flagrant disregard for boundaries.
From his unilateral withdrawals from the Iranian nuclear treaty and the Paris climate accord to his dealings with the Palestinians, Russia and China, few even those close to him could ever fully grasp the extent of his unpredictability or his disdain for detail.
The former Australian prime minister Malcolm Turnbull was thrown off balance by Trumps behaviour during an encounter at a G20 meeting in Hamburg also in 2017.
Like May, Turnbull had important issues on his mind, in this case steel tariffs. Taking his chance, Turnbull collared Trump, who was obsessing about something else. Donald said: Malcolm, do you want to see my SCIF? It is so cool. I had no idea what he was talking about. I thought he was talking about a boat [a skiff]. We turned around a corner and there was this big steel box about the size of a shipping container.
Trump pulled Turnbull into what turned out to be a sensitive compartmented information facility, an ultra-secure communications hub, with the new French president, Emmanuel Macron, also in tow.
He said: This is so cool when youre in there, nobody can hear you, not even the Chinese. Its so secret.
Expectations of Trump from European leaders were not so much low as non-existent. For the former French president Franois Hollande, who dealt with Trump only briefly, an early red flag was raised when the US leader asked him in all earnestness who he should appoint to his team in the White House. I thought he was just being courteous; it was pretty outrageous. Imagine I phoned Obama and said: You know France well, who should I appoint as an adviser? Later, briefing his successor Macron during the transition, Hollande was clear how he regarded the US leader sentiments Percy herself regards as a summing up how many foreign leaders viewed the Trump era.
I said to [Macron], Hollande recalls, dont expect anything from Donald Trump. Do not think youll be able to change his mind. Dont think that its possible to turn him or seduce him. Dont imagine that he wont follow through with his own agenda.
Some friends asked me why I was doing it, said Percy, who has made the documentaries The Death of Yugoslavia, End of Empire and Watergate, and who filmed the new series under lockdown. The view was that we knew what Trump was like. He was on the news every night. But this is the inside story of those who had to deal with him.
Trump Takes on the World begins on Wednesday at 9pm on BBC Two
See the original post here:
How Donald Trump's hand-holding led to panicky call home by Theresa May - The Guardian
- Donald Trump calls for Freedom 250 Concert to be canceled and suggests it is replaced by a MAGA rally following a mass exodus of scheduled performers.... - May 31st, 2026 [May 31st, 2026]
- Donald Trump Will Now Headline Freedom 250 Festival After More Than Half of the Planned Musical Acts Dropped Out - People.com - May 31st, 2026 [May 31st, 2026]
- Donald Trump Jr. and new wife share behind-the-scenes wedding video - CNN - May 31st, 2026 [May 31st, 2026]
- Donald Trump Offers to Perform at Freedom 250 Concert Himself: 'Only Great Patriots Invited' - Rolling Stone - May 31st, 2026 [May 31st, 2026]
- Donald Trump Wants Prediction Markets To 'Thrive', But AGA Boss Bill Miller Disagrees: The CFTC Is 'A Rogue Agency' - Yahoo Finance - May 31st, 2026 [May 31st, 2026]
- Joe Rogan appreciates how Donald Trump does wild st like UFC fights on the White House lawn - Yahoo Sports - May 31st, 2026 [May 31st, 2026]
- Donald Trump only a paper tiger, says Saudi expert - The Jerusalem Post - May 29th, 2026 [May 29th, 2026]
- Jaxson Dart, Abdul Carter explain their viewpoints on Giants QB's Donald Trump introduction - Yahoo Sports - May 29th, 2026 [May 29th, 2026]
- How many Americans think they could beat Donald Trump in a fight? - YouGov - May 11th, 2026 [May 11th, 2026]
- FAA employee from New Hampshire accused of threatening President Donald Trump - WMUR - May 5th, 2026 [May 5th, 2026]
- The soon-to-be-renamed Donald Trump airport has a logo and it's gold - The Palm Beach Post - May 5th, 2026 [May 5th, 2026]
- Donald Trump Is About to Be Humiliated in Front of the Whole World: Political Scientist Robert Pape - The Daily Beast - May 5th, 2026 [May 5th, 2026]
- Donald Trump Says He Wasnt Worried When Shooting Erupted at the White House Correspondents Dinner - People.com - April 27th, 2026 [April 27th, 2026]
- Donald Trump Reacts to Staged Theories About WHCD Shooting - Yahoo - April 27th, 2026 [April 27th, 2026]
- Note to Those So Inclined: Please Stop Trying to Kill Donald Trump - CounterPunch.org - April 27th, 2026 [April 27th, 2026]
- Tucker Carlson says he regrets backing Donald Trump and is tormented by it - The Guardian - April 21st, 2026 [April 21st, 2026]
- From Donald Trump to Jacob Frey has politics lost its profanity filter? - Northeastern University - April 21st, 2026 [April 21st, 2026]
- Donald Trump Claims Apple CEO Tim Cook Once Called the President to Kiss My Ass - Variety - April 21st, 2026 [April 21st, 2026]
- Tucker Carlson Apologizes for Misleading People About Donald Trump: I Will Be Tormented by It for a Long Time - Variety - April 21st, 2026 [April 21st, 2026]
- Here's what Warren Buffett, Sam Altman, Donald Trump, and everyone else has to say about Tim Cook stepping down - Fortune - April 21st, 2026 [April 21st, 2026]
- Jon Stewart Catches Donald Trump Admitting How Miserable He Is - The Daily Beast - April 21st, 2026 [April 21st, 2026]
- Terrible poll ratings would bother some politicians. Donald Trump isnt one of them | Arwa Mahdawi - The Guardian - April 21st, 2026 [April 21st, 2026]
- Three reasons Donald Trump wont pull the US out of Nato - The Conversation - April 10th, 2026 [April 10th, 2026]
- Donald Trump Rails Against Tucker Carlson, Megyn Kelly & Candace Owens - Deadline - April 10th, 2026 [April 10th, 2026]
- Donald Trump Tells Reporter He Didn't 'Know Anything About' Melania's Epstein Remarks Before She Went Live - People.com - April 10th, 2026 [April 10th, 2026]
- Donald Trump Floats Absurd Fantasy to Cope With Iran Humiliation - thedailybeast.com - April 8th, 2026 [April 8th, 2026]
- Donald Trump Jr. says the biggest names think Europe is a disaster that needs to be fixed - fortune.com - April 8th, 2026 [April 8th, 2026]
- Donald Trump says he will work with Iran for 'very productive regime change' - The Jerusalem Post - April 8th, 2026 [April 8th, 2026]
- The world cant wait for Donald Trump to leave office | Letters - theguardian.com - April 7th, 2026 [April 7th, 2026]
- Donald Trump, 79, Rants That Hes Good at Language in Unhinged Appearance - The Daily Beast - April 7th, 2026 [April 7th, 2026]
- Donald Trump Defends His Profanity-Filled Easter Post Urging Iran to 'Open the F---in' Strait, You Crazy B------s' - People.com - April 7th, 2026 [April 7th, 2026]
- Donald Trump says US could destroy Iran in one night as he demands opening of Strait of Hormuz - Financial Times - April 7th, 2026 [April 7th, 2026]
- Was Donald Trump really rushed to Walter Reed Hospital? Heres what to know - Yahoo - April 5th, 2026 [April 5th, 2026]
- Donald Trump: trouble in the heartlands - The Week - April 5th, 2026 [April 5th, 2026]
- A long way down from JFK to Donald Trump - Pittsburgh Post-Gazette - April 5th, 2026 [April 5th, 2026]
- Donald Trump and Pete Hegseths Warped Vision of the Iran War - The New Yorker - April 5th, 2026 [April 5th, 2026]
- Donald Trump is the ageing patriarch of a decaying order | Letters - The Guardian - April 5th, 2026 [April 5th, 2026]
- The 37 most stupid things Donald Trump has ever said - Indy100 - April 5th, 2026 [April 5th, 2026]
- John Roberts told Donald Trump exactly what he thinks - CNN - April 5th, 2026 [April 5th, 2026]
- Donald Trump accused of blade job during assassination attempt. Heres what that means - PennLive - April 5th, 2026 [April 5th, 2026]
- Brian Cox Shared A Brutally Honest Take About Donald Trump And The US Patriarchy - BuzzFeed - April 5th, 2026 [April 5th, 2026]
- Sky News Australia. . Former White House press secretary Sean Spicer says US President Donald Trump hit the ground running on the first day of his... - March 24th, 2026 [March 24th, 2026]
- Donald Trump Says James Talarico Is a Vegan With Six Genders in Bizarre Rant - them.us - March 24th, 2026 [March 24th, 2026]
- President Donald J. Trump and Japanese Prime Minister Sanae Takaichi deliver remarks in the the State Dining Room - The White House (.gov) - March 22nd, 2026 [March 22nd, 2026]
- California is taking Donald Trump to court for breaking the law to put polluter profits before American lives - California State Portal | CA.gov - March 22nd, 2026 [March 22nd, 2026]
- War in Iran is making Donald Trump weakerand angrier - The Economist - March 22nd, 2026 [March 22nd, 2026]
- Donald Trump very surprised Australia declined to send troops to strait of Hormuz amid fuel crisis - The Guardian - March 22nd, 2026 [March 22nd, 2026]
- Majorities of Americans think Donald Trump is arrogant, opportunistic, and reckless - YouGov - March 18th, 2026 [March 18th, 2026]
- Donald Trump Hit With Dire Warning of a Self-Inflicted Disaster - The Daily Beast - March 18th, 2026 [March 18th, 2026]
- LEADER JEFFRIES WITH DEMOCRATIC VETERANS: DONALD TRUMP HAS CONTINUED TO BREAK HIS WORD TO THE AMERICAN PEOPLE Congressman Hakeem Jeffries -... - March 4th, 2026 [March 4th, 2026]
- President Donald J. Trump hosts a bilateral meeting with German Chancellor Friedrich Merz - The White House (.gov) - March 4th, 2026 [March 4th, 2026]
- Donald Trump Humiliated by Allied Pilot Who Downed $100 Million Worth of U.S. Jets - The Daily Beast - March 4th, 2026 [March 4th, 2026]
- Is Donald Trump facing impeachment 2026? What the odds say today - The News Journal - March 4th, 2026 [March 4th, 2026]
- President Donald Trump says he doesnt care if Iran plays at World Cup in North America - The Athletic - The New York Times - March 4th, 2026 [March 4th, 2026]
- President Donald Trump pledges action to save Great Salt Lake - KUTV - February 22nd, 2026 [February 22nd, 2026]
- Donald Trump Calls On Netflix To Fire Board Member Susan Rice Or Pay The Consequences - Deadline - February 22nd, 2026 [February 22nd, 2026]
- Donald Trump just announced a NEW 15% TAX on the American people. He does not care about you. - x.com - February 22nd, 2026 [February 22nd, 2026]
- Donald Trump is reshaping American health care - The Economist - February 22nd, 2026 [February 22nd, 2026]
- Donald Trump says US committing $10 billion to Board of Peace - The Hill - February 20th, 2026 [February 20th, 2026]
- Florida airport to be renamed after US President Donald Trump - RFI - February 20th, 2026 [February 20th, 2026]
- Donald Trump and the disgrace of Presidents Day - The Hill - February 16th, 2026 [February 16th, 2026]
- Nothing says the special relationship is over like this picture of Donald Trump and Liz Truss | Zoe Williams - The Guardian - February 16th, 2026 [February 16th, 2026]
- George Washington and Donald Trump Have a Similar Obsession. Theyve Expressed It Shall We Say ... Differently. - Slate - February 16th, 2026 [February 16th, 2026]
- Where Donald Trump Approval Rating Stands in Each State on Presidents Day - Newsweek - February 16th, 2026 [February 16th, 2026]
- Donald Trump is "in retreat" on Greenland and ICE, prominent critic and California Governor Gavin Newsom told DW at #MSC2026. - facebook.com - February 16th, 2026 [February 16th, 2026]
- Peter Kalis: What JFK did, Donald Trump can do, and for the same reasons - Pittsburgh Post-Gazette - February 16th, 2026 [February 16th, 2026]
- Donald Trump and the Dictator Dynamic - America Magazine - February 11th, 2026 [February 11th, 2026]
- Who wrangled the best trade deal from Donald Trump? - The Economist - February 11th, 2026 [February 11th, 2026]
- President Donald Trump: We have the hottest country in the world - Fox Business - February 9th, 2026 [February 9th, 2026]
- President Donald Trump announces the launch of TrumpRX - The White House (.gov) - February 9th, 2026 [February 9th, 2026]
- Donald Trump calls Bad Bunny's halftime show a slap in the face' to the U.S. - NBC Bay Area - February 9th, 2026 [February 9th, 2026]
- The 7 things to know about President Donald Trump for Monday, Feb. 9 - The Washington Post - February 9th, 2026 [February 9th, 2026]
- Donald Trump calls for immediate NFL rule change after what he saw in Super Bowl 60 - Yahoo - February 9th, 2026 [February 9th, 2026]
- Bill Maher Says Donald Trump Wanting Greenland Isnt the Craziest Idea Ever - TV Insider - February 9th, 2026 [February 9th, 2026]
- Thank you, President Donald J. Trump, for approving Tennessees Major Disaster Declaration to support recovery following Winter Storm Fern. This... - February 7th, 2026 [February 7th, 2026]
- How to Protect the 2026 Elections from Donald Trump - The New Yorker - February 7th, 2026 [February 7th, 2026]
- 3 Polls That Paint a Worrying Sign for Donald Trump - Newsweek - February 7th, 2026 [February 7th, 2026]
- Donald Trump is still weird - Yahoo - February 7th, 2026 [February 7th, 2026]
- Remarks: Donald Trump Addresses the National Prayer Breakfast at the Capitol - February 5, 2026 - Roll Call - February 7th, 2026 [February 7th, 2026]
- Eugene Daniels reacts to Trump post with racist depiction of Obamas: 'This is who Donald Trump is' - MS NOW - February 7th, 2026 [February 7th, 2026]