Is there really etiquette on social media? And, if there is,      do I need to start teaching my children about such etiquette?      (Thinkstock)    
    I teach a social media class at UMass Amherst, and my students    were recently talking about the etiquette of social media. It    was not something I had really thought about.     Is there really etiquette on social media? And, if there    is, do I need to start teaching my children about such    etiquette?  
    As parents we spend a lot of time on manners: Elbows off    the table, firm handshake, respect your elders, look people in    the eye when talking to them, etc. But the more I spoke to my    students, the more I thought about the need to talk to my kids    about social media etiquette.  
    So what is unacceptable behavior?  
    My students said they've seen     breakups live-tweeted or live broadcast on Facebook. And a    close friend of mine told me she saw a friend from high school    live broadcast her marriage falling apart, including references    to domestic violence. The broadcast was also filled with    comments from Facebook friends offering support.  
    I recalled when my son and his girlfriend broke up in seventh    grade and how there was a bit of a backlash. The animosity    wasn't public  it took place on Facebook's messaging system     but friends of the girl were verbally attacking my son and his    friends, making threats. At one point, one of the girl's    friends dropped the N-word, prompting me to take a screen    shot of the exchange and send it to the guidance counselor.  
    The student was reprimanded, but I also had an opportunity to    explore some of the ideas behind social media communication.    Teen and pre-teens live in a world where the focus tends to be    on them. Communication is often seen as     one-to-one or one-to-several instead of one-to-many.    So, I tried to get my son to understand that you never know who    will be reading your social media rants. The old adage seems    appropriate here: Don't write anything you wouldn't want your    grandmother to read.  
    I do remember that he garnered a bunch of Facebook comments    when     he changed his in a relationship status to single.    And, this is an issue for divorced parents as well. I'm    friends with my son on Facebook, so I've been overly careful    not to share too much about my divorce. And when I changed my    relationship status I just left it blank  partially not to    call attention to it (and possibly embarrass him) but also    because I wanted to control the flow of information, not    Facebook  
    And, ultimately that is one of the lessons we need to pass on    to our children about communication in a social media world.    Undoubtedly, there are parts of your life you want to share     successes, photos, moments of happiness. But everyone does not    need to know everything.  
    So, Social Media Etiquette Rule #1: Think before you share    (even if you are a teenager)  
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How to teach your kids social media etiquette