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Caught in the middle of a lovers’ quarrel – The Daily Star

When Will screamed at Mike and said "I have been a total third wheel all day, it's been miserable," in Stranger Things, I bet everyone who has been the third wheel at some point was able to relate. To see two of your friends in a relationship usually makes us happy.

However, sometimes when there is an issue between them, the usual third-wheeling can take an even more awkward turn. After all, what are you supposed to do?

About a year ago, I had to deal with this situation where two of my friends were struggling to communicate freely in their relationship, causing continued misunderstandings and an overall sense of resentment. When asked, all I could tell them was to have an honest conversation with each other.

What I have learnt from my experience is that your friends will often not listen to you, even if they were the ones asking for your advice in the first place. Since this is an emotionally tumultuous time for them, they might not want to listen to any logic or reason. Thus, it is safest to lend an ear and keep your opinions to yourself.

In such situations, it is important to remember it is not your responsibility to fix things for them, the most you can do is offer a trusted ear and a shoulder to cry on. You may feel like you have to take sides if things get worse, but that only leads to further misunderstandings and blame games. Before you know it, you are now a part of this fight.

In any case if the situation ultimately calls for you to become the mediator, make sure you only do it if they have asked you to do so. Again, this is truly not your responsibility, and what you are doing is out of the goodness of your heart. Try to limit your contribution to making them see each other's points of view, and introducing the concept of reason, at best. If they truly want to proceed with fixing things, they will put in the effort required.

Don't try to be the hero here, it is not going to make things better but rather take a turn in the opposite direction and go downhill. For all parties involved.

You want the best for your friends, but if the worst happens and the relationship ends, try to keep away and allow space for both perspectives. Give them some time to heal from the aftermath.

At the end of the day, you want your friends to be genuinely happy, no matter the state of their involvement. Remember to prioritise your own mental health and wellbeing too.

Angelina Nodee Francis enjoys cracking self-deprecating jokes and running away from her problems. Send her memes at angelinafrancis004@gmail.com

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Penny for your thoughts – New study looks at the many downsides of a lack of self-disclosure – PR Web

Social media is filled with over-sharers, but expressing at least some of your thoughts plays an important role in emotional and psychological health.

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Twitter users eviscerated psychologist and author Jordan Peterson when he tweeted his distaste for Sports Illustrateds use of a plus-size model for their cover. A male firefighter from Toronto, upset with a proposal to hire more female firefighters, posted a tweet about women having many defects, including their weak arms. In a world where people often feel the need to voice their unabashed opinion even when its not solicited, its hard to imagine that there could be many benefits to wanton self-disclosure. Yet, a recent study from PsychTests.com reveals that people who openly share at least some of their thoughts are happier, more confident, and are more emotionally healthy than those who dont.

Analyzing data from 3,781 people who took the Big Five Personality Test, PsychTests researchers compared the personality, attitude, and behaviors of people who candidly share their thoughts (Uninhibited sharers), those who share some of their thoughts (Partial sharers), and those who keep their thoughts to themselves (Non-sharers). Heres what PsychTests study revealed:

NON-SHARERS ARE MORE LIKELY TO STRUGGLE WITH UNPLEASANT EMOTIONS

NON-SHARERS ARE MORE LIKELY TO STRUGGLE WITH CONFIDENCE ISSUES

IN CONTRAST, UNINHIBITED SHARERS:

We certainly dont recommend sharing your innermost thoughts without any filters, but we are strong proponents of self-disclosure. Keeping things to yourself, especially your worries or frustrations, becomes emotionally and psychologically overwhelming, explains Dr. Ilona Jerabek, president of PsychTests. This is why a lot of the Non-sharers also happened to struggle with mental health issues - if you dont vent, all that unpleasantness remains simmering inside, leading to problems with depression, anxiety, and stress as well as relationship issues.

Of course, its not surprising that many people find it hard to self-disclose, continues Dr. Jerabek. It requires a willingness to be vulnerable and the ability to accept the potential for backlash, anger, mockery, and even betrayal. Imagine sharing something personal only to have it used against youit can be traumatizing. In fact, 48% of Non-sharers have trust issues, likely stemming from regretful instances where their divulgences were used to hurt them. That being said, it is clear from our study that the price of keeping everything to yourself can be quite costly as well. And although 39% of Uninhibited sharers admitted that their tell-all approach to life has offended people, they still tend to be better off emotionally and psychologically. This doesnt mean you need to share every thought that pops into your head, but some self-disclosure is healthy, for yourself and your relationships.

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Some critics of religion need to pick up their game – Angelus News

Recently, I had the privilege of sitting down with Lex Fridman for a wide-ranging two-hour conversation. Lex is a professor of robotics and artificial intelligence at MIT and anextremely popular podcaster. In this latter capacity, he has spoken to significant players in a number of fieldsJoe Rogan, Mark Zuckerberg, Elon Musk, and Sam Harris, to name just a few. Though his main interests are in the arenas of science and technology, he is quite open to discussing matters of a more philosophical and even religious nature. Fridman has a very engaging stylenot argumentative and confrontational, but rather curious, inquisitive. In the course of our two hours together, we talked about God, Jesus, life after death, morality, modernity, Nietzsche, Jordan Peterson, the Bible, faith, and the meaning of life.

Judging from the thousands of comments, the general reaction from his largely tech-oriented audience was quite positive. Many observed that they were pleased to hear a serious conversation about matters that went beyond what the sciences can describe. However, I dont want to focus on the encouraging reactions, but rather on the critical onesand there were plenty of them toofor they tell us a good deal about what young secularists are thinking in regard to religion.

Without a doubt, the most common negative reaction was that I was speaking gobbledygook, or tossing an unimpressive word salad, or using lots of words to say nothing at all. Much of this critique was focused on my opening exchange with the interviewer. Lex asked me very simply, Who is God? I responded, not sentimentally or piously, but rather in the technical language of philosophy. I said that God isipsum esse subsistens(the sheer act of being itself), in contradistinction to anything other than God, in which essence and existence are distinguished. I went on to clarify the meaning of these terms in the manner of Thomas Aquinas, attempting to be as precise and technically correct as possible. To be sure, there are many ways to talk about God, but I chose, with Lexs audience in mind, to use a more intellectual approach.

What most struck me in regard to my critics is that none of them actually engaged the argument I was making or endeavored to formulate a counter-position; they simply pronounced that what I was saying was gibberish. Anyone even vaguely acquainted with the Western philosophical tradition would know that I was, in point of fact, operating out of a system of thought developed by some of the most brilliant thinkers in the tradition: Plato, Aristotle, Augustine, Boethius, Plotinus, Bonaventure, and yes, Thomas Aquinas. It was, to be sure, not scientific speech, but it was perfectly rational, philosophically disciplined speech. That so many in the comment boxes simply did not know what I was talking about was a sobering reminder of how narrow and cramped our educational system has become. In my responses to some of these critics, I said, Would you accuse a theoretical physicist, who was using the technical language of his discipline, of word salad, if you did not immediately understand him? Wouldnt you perhaps summon the humility to admit that you had a lot to learn? I am reminded of something Cardinal Francis George used to saynamely, that before we can even broach the question of the relation between science and religion, we have to reintroduce people to philosophy, the rational discipline that effectively mediates between them. Sadly, many in the Lex Fridman audience didnt know what to do with the sort of philosophical language in which much of our doctrine of God is expressed.

The second most common criticism was that my very Catholicism effectively disqualified me. How can you listen to a representative of the most corrupt institution in history? complained one commentator. Religionespecially the Catholic religionis responsible for the deaths of millions, said another. Here is my favorite: Of all the differing variations of Christianity, Catholicism is by far the most cynical, repugnant, crass variant. Its done more harm to the human species than any other religion, its kept us back from progressing. Um ... just off the top of my head: how anyone, after the murderous secularist and atheist regimes of the twentieth century, which piled up tens of millions of corpses, can, with a straight face, argue that Roman Catholicism is the source of the greatest corruption in history simply beggars belief. This sort of canard can only be construed as the result of the intentionally distorted recounting of history far too typical in our colleges and universities. Secondly, this is such a cheap trick of our woke era: identify your opponent as a member of a supposedly oppressive group, cancel him, and thereby conveniently avoid any obligation to make an argument or respond to one. Thirdly, even if we grant (as we should) that lots of Catholics have behaved badly in the course of a two-thousand-year history, what precisely does this prove? That Catholicism is essentially corrupt? That its doctrines, sacraments, liturgies, saints, and culture are fatally compromised? Hardly. That human beings are a bad lot? Sureand in point of fact, the Catholic teaching regarding the ongoing effects of original sin even in those who are baptized would lead us to expect as much. In a word, this sort of criticism is little more than a red herring, an intentional distraction from the issue at hand.

Over the years, I have made a slew of suggestions as to how we religious people canimprove our evangelical strategies, but I wonder whether I might offer a challenge to those too ready to dismiss religious claims out of hand. First, dont cavalierly characterize philosophy as word salad, and perhaps even try to study it. And second, drop the woke posturing and have the courage to enter into real argument with those who dont share your worldview.

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A day in the life of Jordan Walker work ethic and daily dedication to get better has made him Cardinals’ top prospect – Webster-Kirkwood Times, Inc.

By Rob Rains

SPRINGFIELD, Mo. It was just another game during a long, six-month season, a Thursday night in the middle of August. For Jordan Walker, however, it represented something that excites the Cardinals top prospect every time he comes to the ballpark.

It was an opportunity for him to get better.

Thats the way he carries himself every night, said Ryan Ludwick, the Cardinals roving minor-league hitting instructor. He doesnt carry himself in a way like, Ive got this, Im the best. When he takes the field, he wants to get better.

The game between the Springfield Cardinals and Arkansas Travelers was the 176th game of Walkers professional career, all coming in the last 17 months. It has been a quick rise to the top of the prospect rankings for the 20-year-old Walker, who was the youngest player, at 19, in the Texas League when this season began.

Blessed with physical size and natural athleticism, Walkers career had a nice launching pad, but talking to those who have spent time with Walker since the Cardinals made him their first-round pick in the 2020 draft produces the same answer about whats his most impressive skill and the reason people use the words superstar and cornerstone when describing his potential, terms that are not thrown around lightly.

He just hits the ball so much harder than everybody else. Thats pretty special, said Tyger Pederson, Springfields hitting coach. He also has a special commitment to getting better. The way he goes after the game, in all aspects, he is trying to do everything he can to get better.

Every day hes the kind of kid who you have to say enough is enough. He always wants to work. He wants to be perfect. Hes always striving for his best.

On this night, what shows up in the box score is that Walker hit two home runs and the Cardinals beat the Travelers 5-4. That represents only part of Walkers day. What the box score doesnt show is what makes Walker such a special prospect.

Here is an inside look at one day in the grind that sometimes gobbles up even the best prospects and spits them out along the way and what Walker is doing to make certain that wont happen to him.

1:30 p.m.

Walker makes the short drive to Hammons Field from the apartment he shares with three of his teammates. Its an hour before the team has been told to report, and five and a half hours until game time.

Walker is here early so he can spend time working with trainer Alex Wolfinger, who he knows will be busy as it gets closer to game time.

His day began as it does on most days when the team is at home, with a bowl of Coco Crisp cereal, followed by either playing video games with one of his roommates, Masyn Winn, or watching television.

Walker will spend most of the next few hours either hitting in the batting cage, attending the team hitters meeting or taking live batting practice on the field.

He wants to find out information about the pitcher starting for Arkansas, Prelander Berroa, who he has never faced before and who has only been in the league for a few weeks following his promotion from A ball.

There are a lot of metrics but I dont like looking at too many of them because it gets you out of the swing and hit it approach, Walker said. I want to see what he throws, how his ball moves. We have video from last week.

Pederson also provides a scouting report which will help Walker and his teammates know what they should work on in the cage.

Hes always looking to challenge himself, Pederson said. He stands the closest to the (pitching) machine out of anybody, to simulate the most velocity and the most challenging pitches. He doesnt shy away from any challenge, thats for sure.

He works on everything. He has a great routine and sticks with it.

One of the challenges in the 10-team Texas League for hitters is that they face the same teams often, especially in their own division, and see a lot of the same pitchers.

Its always challenging when you face the same team over and over, Pederson said. Once they get the scouting report on you they are obviously going to try to pitch to it. They are going to try to find ways to get you out, no different than us trying to find ways to hit them.

He (Walker) is always trying to stay ahead of the curve. Hes one of those guys who doesnt like to get beat. If he does, we go to work and try to find ways to beat them. More often than not this year hes been pretty successful at beating them.

Walker is coming into the game with a .308 average, which ranks fifth in the league. He has the fourth most hits in the league and ranks third in doubles and extra base hits. The longest he has gone without a hit this season has been two games.

One of the changes Walker has made to his pre-game routine in recent weeks is to take at least one round in the batting cage against a high velocity machine using foam balls. Teammate Mike Antico introduced him to the drill.

We can crank it up pretty high and get swings in, Walker said.

It helps me get my foot down and get my timing right.

Ludwick has had a chance to observe and work with Walker when he is town, as he did in 2021 when Walker was in A ball. Making his fourth visit to Springfield this summer, Ludwick is not surprised that Walker has found a new way to prepare which he thinks will help him improve offensively.

He always wants to do more, Ludwick said. We try to tell him 50 swings is enough. He doesnt need to take 500. He would take 1,000 if he could. He loves to work.

Hes very instinctual and into the game. Hes willing to listen and he applies. In that regard in the six years Ive been here as a coach hes off the charts as far as the prospects Ive seen I think the skys the limit.

4:16 p.m.

After the meetings and his work in the batting cage, Walker and his teammates have spent a little time resting and playing cards in the clubhouse. Their game of choice at the moment is called Presidents.

Now its time to get back to work as Walker steps to the plate for live batting practice. He takes several rounds, then picks up his glove and jogs to the outfield.

This is where Walkers work ethic is on display again. Its only been a couple of weeks since the organization decided it was time for him to make the move from third base to the outfield, a decision Walker instantly supported.

I want to be a big leaguer, and whatever they see as the fit for me I want to do it, Walker said. Im having a lot of fun with it. Its been a fun change for me.

Walker uses his time while his teammates are hitting to work on reading balls off the bat and getting jumps, the areas where he believes he needs the most work.

I want to become an elite outfielder; I want to be someone who they can rely on to make the plays, Walker said. My goal is to be a complete player.

Manager Jose Leger is convinced that Walker will do whatever is necessary to make that happen.

Its a matter of repetition, Leger said. His athleticism is going to play out there and definitely the arm. . He cares, he battles. He finds a way.

When batting practice ends and Walker heads back to the clubhouse, he makes certain Winn has his order for his pre-game meal correct a five-piece Zaxbys chicken tenders meal with double toast, no cole slaw and fries. He will get their smoothies while Winn places the order through DoorDash to have it delivered to the clubhouse.

Tonight will be Walkers 11th game in the outfield as he starts in center. He already has spent time in left and right as well. Ludwick, who played 956 games in the outfield during his 12 years in the majors, saw Walker there for the first time the previous night.

Its like hes played out there for two years, Ludwick said.

Pederson has worked with Walker about that aspect of his game as well, and Walker has relied on tips and suggestions from his teammates who have a lot more experience playing in the outfield.

The first day we told him about the change (in positions) he we was like, Tyger, lets go. Lets get to work, Pederson said. Every game he stands next to me and when situations come up we talk through different defensive approaches, what we are thinking and how we want to keep guys off second base, where we want to throw the ball, things like that.

Hes all in. Hes taken a real liking to it and has a real joy about it. Hes already got a few outfield assists. He throws the ball extremely well.

7:55 p.m.

Walker, batting third for the Cardinals, heads to the plate for his second at-bat of the scoreless game with one out in the third inning and a runner on first.

He struck out on four pitches in his first at-bat against Berroa, taking a ball before a swing and miss, a foul and another swing and miss. Its a similar result in this at-bat a swing and miss, followed by a ball, then two more swinging strikes.

The guy was really good, Walker would say after the game.

This team usually likes to go fastballs away and then off speed but he was throwing his slider that looked like a fastball. I didnt really feel lost at the plate but he made some really good pitches. Sometimes you just dont hit them.

Even though he is still early in his career, one of the in-game adjustments that Walker has already been able to make is to realize that a key to being successful is to relax more at the plate.

One of the things Ive been working on this season is not worrying too much about what happens in the first two at-bats; you can always make it into a good game, Walker said. Never counting yourself out is something Ive learned from my teammates, especially Chandler Redmond. Hes really been talking to me about that.

8:41 p.m.

The good news for Walker as he prepares for his third at-bat, leading off in the sixth, is that the Travelers have changed pitchers. Berroa came out of the game after striking out eight in four innings.

Walker fouls off the first pitch from Jake Haberer, then launches the second pitch over the left-field wall for a game-tying homer.

Youre going to see him chasing pitches now and then and probably have a poor at-bat, and looking like he has no idea, and then the next at-bat he will get you, Leger said. Hes just a natural hitter who has the ability to put the ball in play and find a way to put the barrel on the ball. Ive been amazed.

Hes kept me on my toes. Its not easy to coach third when he is hitting because youve got to look out for some balls coming your way too.

Other managers always want to praise how good he is. He is not a polished hitter and still gets it done. The kid just turned 20. To be at the Double A level and doing what he is doing is amazing.

Chris Swauger (Walkers manager in Peoria in 2021) told me, This kid is going to be special. Not that I didnt believe him, but you always want to see it first for yourself to say if hes right or say no, hes wrong. He was right. By far he is the best player in this league.

One of the players who has helped push Walker to get better is Winn, his close friend who considers Walker my brother from another mother.

Hes going to obviously be a perennial All-Star and is going to be a great player when he gets to the show, Winn said. Just getting to see his journey through the minor leagues its fun to watch.

I think I bring a little bit of energy and he kind of calms me down a little bit. We are kind of that fire and ice combo. If he gets a hit, I want to get a hit.

9:13 p.m.

Walkers parents, Derek and Katrina, are finishing up dinner with their older son, Derek Jr., at their home outside of Atlanta during the game. As he does for almost every game, Walker has the broadcast feed of the game streaming on his Ipad.

My wife is not happy about it because a lot of the time I am watching it during dinner, Derek Walker said. I have the volume turned down low. Thats the compromise.

He had waited until there was a break in the conversation earlier to inform his wife and son that Jordan had hit a home run.

There was a runner on second with two outs in the seventh when Walker came to the plate again, with the Cardinals trailing 3-2 and another new pitcher, Devin Sweet, on the mound.

After swinging and missing the first pitch, Walker didnt miss the second, this time going to the opposite field, hitting his second home run of the game over the wall in right center to give the Cardinals the lead.

Watching on his Ipad, Derek Walker saw it, and then casually slipped it into the dinner table conversation. Oh by the way Jordan hit another home run, he said.

The home run was Walkers 15th of the year, matching the goal he had set in discussions with his dad before the year began, one more than his total in A ball last season.

Since Walker was a junior in high school, setting goals for the season had been a ritual. Back then, the goals were colorfully illustrated in a print out of a PowerPoint presentation that was taped to the wall in Walkers bedroom.

The goals have changed as a professional, to some not so specific numeric targets, but Walker does still like to set some of them. Two for this year that Walker revealed were the 15 homers and 15 stolen bases. He already has 17 steals, three more than last years total, with nearly a month left in the season.

What we instead tried to focus on was not so much the outcome, because thats harder to control as a professional, Derek Walker said. More of the focus on goals surrounded technique; for instance, not trying to step out of the batters box as much; a general goal of staying healthy, goals like that.

This home run was noteworthy in the fact that Walker was able to hit an outside pitch over the opposite wall instead of trying to pull it, something else he and the coaches have been working on.

Working with the foam ball machine has helped me with that, Walker said. It was nice to see that one go out when youve been putting in the work trying to hit that pitch with more consistency.

Ludwick was pleased to see the result as well.

He talks a lot about handling pitches away better, Ludwick said. Hes aware that he pulls the ball with a lot of power and hits the ball the other way really hard but doesnt produce the same amount of power as he does to the pull side. That comes with growth.

He can flat out hit. He knows he is going to evolve as a player. He knows theres room for growth It looks like hes just tapping the ball and it comes off the bat at 115 (exit velocity). Holy crap. Hes 20 years old. He doesnt act like hes 20. Its actually like hes 26.

The hopes are with this organization that you have the Alberts and the Yadis. When you draft a player and bring him through the organization you are always looking for that bonafide cornerstone player. He has cornerstone written all over him.

Added Leger, Hes got the attitude, the aura, that he will be a superstar. Hes got that in him. Hes very humble and a great teammate. He cares. He has fun. There is always a smile on his face. Hes eager to learn. He listens

He wants to be elite, thats the bottom line.

9:57 p.m.

The Cardinals get a walkoff win on a wild pitch, which comes with Walker on-deck. He is quick to join the celebration of players jumping around in back of home plate.

As much fun as Walker is having this season, and as much as his parents have enjoyed watching him, all three cant help but think at moments like this about someone who would be enjoying it perhaps even more.

Charles Peterson was an area scout for the Cardinals who took Walker under his wing as the two became close in 2019 and 2020 throughout the draft process.

He definitely liked Jordan a lot and in my opinion had big visions for what Jordan could do, Derek Walker said. He was very high on Jordan.

In the summer of 2019, Peterson was one of the coaches at the East Coast Pro showcase, where Walker struggled.

What Charles told Katrina and I was that he was able to see Jordan work through it in the batting cage, watching him day to day, and that was one of the things that impressed him and went into his calculus about deciding what Jordan was going to do, Derek Walker said.

At another event that December, with a bunch of scouts from different teams there, sort of like speed dating, Charles said he watched Jordan from the time he walked in the door until the time he walked out. What he was looking for was the intangibles. He knew how good of a player he was but he looked at how the other players gathered around him. He wanted to see how Jordan and I interacted when we talked with other scouts. He wanted to see if I was doing the talking or Jordan. Jordan did it.

That was some of what he said he noticed which kind of helped seal the deal in his mind about Jordan being the right player.

Just two months after Peterson celebrated when the Cardinals made Walker their first-round pick, he was dead. Peterson was 46 when he died on Sept. 13, 2020 from complications caused by Covid.

I dont talk about it too much because it really did upset me when he died, the younger Walker said. He was a great guy and I miss him a lot.

Derek Walker knows how much Peterson would be enjoying watching Walker -and dreaming about his future.

Katrina and I think about that a lot, he said. We would love to be able to call him for some chats about how Jordan and the Cardinals are doing.

One comment that Peterson made to the Walkers which they have not forgotten came after Walker signed his contract, turning down a scholarship to Duke.

He said his vision was to see Jordan, Nolan Gorman and Dylan Carlson being announced and running on the field together at the 2025 World Series, Walker said.

Jordan Walker doesnt like to think much about the future, preferring to stay in the moment but he is willing to make an exception in this case.

I would love nothing more than for that to happen, he said.

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Psychologist Jordan Peterson Says Society Is Harming Boys, and the Church Must Save Them: ‘That’s Your Holy Duty’ – CBN.com

Renowned Canadian psychologist Dr. Jordan Peterson says young people, especially boys, are facing a "demoralization" in the world and he's urging the Christian church to become more involved in reaching the next generation.

In a recent YouTube video titled "Messages to Christian Churches," Peterson explained that when he took a "psychological approach" while talking about the Bible, the majority of his listeners turned out to be young men.

"That is not a phenomenon that can be easily accounted for, but let me try," Dr. Peterson said. "Now in the West, because of the weight of historical guilt that is upon us, a variant of the sense of original sin in a very real sense, and because of a very real attempt by those possessed by what might be described as unhelpful ideas to weaponize that guilt, our young people face a demoralization that is perhaps unparalleled."

"This is particularly true of young men, although anything that devastates young men will eventually do the same to young women," he added while referring to anti-natalism and nihilism.

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Peterson continued, "When they are children, boys are hectored for their toy preferences, which often include toy weapons, such as guns, and their more boisterous playing style, as boys require active rough and tumble play even more than girls, for whom it is also a necessity. When in grade school, boys are admonished, shamed and controlled in a very similar manner by those who think that play is unnecessary, particularly if it's competitive, and who value a docile, harmless obedience above all."

He said the indoctrination of such an "extremely damaging ideology" is accomplished with three accusations.

"Number one: human culture, particularly in the West, is best construed as an oppressive patriarchy motivated by the desire, willingness and the ability to use power to attain what are purely selfish and self-serving ends," he explained.

"Accusation number two: human activity, particularly that undertaken in the West, is fundamentally a planet despoiling enterprise. The human race is a threat to the ecological utopia that existed before us and could hypothetically exist after in our absence."

"Accusation number three: the prime contributor both to the tyranny that makes up the oppressive patriarchy and structures all of our social interactions past and present and the unforgivable despoiling of our beloved mother Earth is damnable male ambition, competitive and dominating, power-mad, selfish, exploitative, raping and pillaging," he said.The psychologist explained that people in the West are facing "an all-out assault at the deepest levels."He said young men who are "deeply conscientious, capable of guilt and regret," consider that "in pain, every deep impulse that moves them out into the world for the adventure of their life, even that impulse drawing them to women, is nothing but the manifestation of the spirit that is essentially satanic in nature."

This belief is not only wrong "theologically, morally, psychologically, practically and scientifically," but it is also "anti-true," he noted.

Peterson also pointed out that the Christian church is "there to remind people, especially young men, that they have a woman to find, a garden to walk in, a family to nurture, an ark to build, a land to conquer, a ladder to Heaven to build, and the utter terrible catastrophe of life, to face stalwartly in truth, devoted to love and without fear."

He continued, "Invite the young men back, say, literally, to those young men, 'You are welcome here. If no one else wants what you have to offer, we do. We want to call you to the highest purpose of your life. We want your time and energy and effort and your will and your goodwill. We want to work with you to make things better, to produce life more abundant for you, and for your wife and children and for your community, and your country, and the world.'"

Dr. Peterson then pointed out the problems within the Christian church.

"We are more abundant, sometimes, far too often, corrupt, and sometimes deeply so," he said. "We're outdated, as are all institutions with their roots in the dead but still often wise past."

He shifted attention towards Protestant churches, saying, "You're the worst at the moment." Catholic and Orthodox should also invite young men, Peterson said.

"Put up a billboard saying 'young men are welcome here.' Tell those who have never been in a church exactly what to do, how to dress, when to show up, who to contact and, most importantly, what they can do. Ask more, not less of those you are inviting. Ask more of them than anyone ever has. Remind them who they are in the deepest sense, and help them become that."

Peterson concluded the message by saying, "You're churches for God's sake. Quit fighting for social justice. Quit saving the bloody planet. Attend to some souls. That's what you're supposed to do. That's your holy duty. Do it now, before it's too late. The hour is nigh."

Thousands of viewers commented on the video and some even said they were motivated to go back to church.

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